Tappet or "lifter" is what everyone is talking about. The old school motors use a flat bottom lifter where as the newer style motors have rollers on the bottom of the lifters.
This is not the only difference between a flat tappet and a roller motor, but it is why people refer to them as flat tappet and roller.
ZDDP = Zink Dithiophosphate. Good for lubing and engine, bad for the environment. Good for lube is why its needed on flat tappet cams, bad for the environment is why oil companies are taking more and more of it out of their oils. Plus the new roller style engines dont need near as much of it.
Remember, when talking about ZDDP addative, your talking PPM (parts per million). Its in there, but its pretty scarce as it is even at high amounts.